I’m begging, pleading, if you are using the phrase ‘if you can’t handle me at my worst..you don’t deserve me at ..’

You know. We all know it.


Please if you are using that. Save everyone the unnecessary retina exercise of the eye roll and stop torturing every human being around you. With the abuse of banners and social media sites a great many of short span readers are moved by some predictable commentary that come from another person then it is used, and overused again.

I value the people in my life who actually still pick up a book and make their own quotes. Those original quotes are what stand out to me and everyone else in my circle.

As fantastic and stunning as she was, what Marilyn Monroe said after her third divorce due to her mental issues, does not open my eyes to your supposed strength. I can assure you when a person with a working brain reads your comment they are thinking of what they saw on the newsfeed right before that famous predictable Marilyn quote, or the apparent fact you are in dire need of some validation, and it is most certainly clear that you don’t ever pick up a book.

While we’re at it, let’s look at the meaning of the quote; Marilyn’s telling you ‘listen if you don’t take my abusive garbage when I’m in a bad, empty, evasive mood, I’m not going to be sexy and happy for you when I’m in a good mood.’

Is that your message to the world?

One of my cherished memories of my beloved mom is the many times of her having me enjoy Marilyn Monroe movies with her, and the books she would share with me on Marilyn. I could tell you every thing there is to know about Norma Jeane due to my mom being such a huge fan; how Marilyn was abandoned by her mother in front of a movie theatre, how she was raised and abused in children wards, how she married for the first time to escape her abuse in an orphanage, how women in her day were treated like prostitutes to make it in Hollywood films, how she worked to prefect her craft to be taken seriously of more meaty roles all to be a continued trademark of the dumb blonde for dollar signs, how she wanted nothing more than to be loved but continually sabotaged and ran from the very thing she craved the most. Love and stability.

The reminders of Marilyn Monroe make me smile due to my mom. Although true Marilyn fans know that quote meant a great deal of sadness and suffering.

This is some brutal advice, but it’s the new approach to my blog. And, you’ll privately be grateful when you say something of your own and get that reaction you are looking for.

“When you’re not nervous anymore, give up, because nervousness indicates sensitivity.”~Marilyn Monroe

“It takes a smart brunette to play a dumb blonde.” ~Marilyn Monroe

“It’s all make believe, isn’t it?”~Marilyn Monroe

“Sometimes I see I’m fooling myself and others.”~Marilyn Monroe

About DondasDigs.com

I am a mama, wife, freelance writer, childrens rights activist, singer/songwriter, self employed music producer, music enthusiast, and dry comedian. Also, have lived and won the fight of ambiguous injustice in misdiagnoses, health challenges, and recovery. Along with being highly opinionated, all for your entertainment and my creativity. ALSO possibly the biggest Elvis Presley fan you'll ever meet, without collecting all the junk. ~~~~~~~~~~~
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